{"id":24884,"date":"2016-04-05T14:46:29","date_gmt":"2016-04-05T18:46:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/gozen.com\/?p=24884"},"modified":"2022-02-14T05:50:22","modified_gmt":"2022-02-14T10:50:22","slug":"11-superpowers-of-anxious-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/gozen.com\/11-superpowers-of-anxious-children\/","title":{"rendered":"11 Superpowers of Anxious Children"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-24885 \" src=\"https:\/\/gozen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/anxietysuperpowers2-768x893-1.png\" alt=\"Benefits of Child Anxiety\" width=\"549\" height=\"638\" srcset=\"https:\/\/gozen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/anxietysuperpowers2-768x893-1.png 768w, https:\/\/gozen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/anxietysuperpowers2-768x893-1-600x698.png 600w, https:\/\/gozen.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/04\/anxietysuperpowers2-768x893-1-258x300.png 258w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 549px) 100vw, 549px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Let&#8217;s not sugarcoat it: Life can be hard for anxious kids. Even simple, everyday tasks can seem big and scary when they come with sweaty palms, a pounding heart, and the feeling that something &#8212; anything, maybe even <em>everything<\/em> &#8212; is about to go horribly wrong. Anxious kids may\u00a0feel like it&#8217;s their job to stop a disaster from happening, or even like they&#8217;ve done something wrong and need to fix it. That&#8217;s a lot to shoulder at any age.<\/p>\n<p>But they&#8217;ve done nothing wrong; in fact, those anxious feelings have some hidden advantages. It&#8217;s kind of like having a secret superpower. Here are\u00a011 interesting ways that\u00a0anxiety can actually be a good thing:<\/p>\n<h3>1. You\u00a0are\u00a0creative.<\/h3>\n<p>Often, the people who worry the most <a href=\"https:\/\/www.higherperspectives.com\/overthinking-worriers-1429984438.html\" data-cke-saved-href=\"https:\/\/www.higherperspectives.com\/overthinking-worriers-1429984438.html\">have great imaginations<\/a>. \u00a0You are able to see situations in new and inventive ways. Your imagination is like a muscle; the more you use it, the more creativity can come out of it.<\/p>\n<h3>2. You\u00a0prepare your body to\u00a0perform at its best.<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.wsj.com\/articles\/SB10001424052702303836404577474451463041994\" data-cke-saved-href=\"https:\/\/www.wsj.com\/articles\/SB10001424052702303836404577474451463041994\">Having a little bit of anxiety can actually help you<\/a>\u00a0perform better at all sorts of tasks, both physical and mental. It&#8217;s like having your own secret rocket fuel that you can channel into highly effective action, especially if you use it to prepare beforehand.<\/p>\n<h3>3. You\u00a0are\u00a0observant (and self-aware).<\/h3>\n<p>A\u00a0little bit of anxiety might just save your life, because it makes you more observant about your surroundings and aware of what&#8217;s going on inside yourself.\u00a0You notice things that other people are more likely to take for granted.<\/p>\n<h3>4. You are\u00a0leadership material.<\/h3>\n<p>You take into account <a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/sites\/rogertrapp\/2015\/01\/30\/anxious-leaders-make-better-decisions\/#1304f09850b0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">the possibility\u00a0of multiple outcomes when making a decision<\/a>&#8211;a characteristic of a great leader.<\/p>\n<h3>5.\u00a0You are a good friend.<\/h3>\n<p>When you&#8217;re\u00a0anxious, the entire world can feel\u00a0like a terrible, horrible, no good and very bad place to be. But we promise, it&#8217;s almost always better than you think. In fact, researchers have discovered that people almost always think better of you than you expect, and\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.spring.org.uk\/2014\/11\/new-friendship-study-has-great-message-for-social-anxiety-sufferers.php\" data-cke-saved-href=\"https:\/\/www.spring.org.uk\/2014\/11\/new-friendship-study-has-great-message-for-social-anxiety-sufferers.php\">your friends value <em>your<\/em>\u00a0friendship<\/a> more than you can even imagine.<\/p>\n<h3>6.\u00a0You are trustworthy.<\/h3>\n<p>Even if people can see that you&#8217;re a little flustered sometimes, they\u00a0don&#8217;t mind because <a href=\"https:\/\/psycnet.apa.org\/?&amp;fa=main.doiLanding&amp;doi=10.1037\/a0025403\" data-cke-saved-href=\"https:\/\/psycnet.apa.org\/?&amp;fa=main.doiLanding&amp;doi=10.1037\/a0025403\">it shows that you care<\/a>\u00a0about the people around you and what&#8217;s going on. They&#8217;re much more likely to trust you than someone who&#8217;s completely calm and composed all the time.<\/p>\n<h3>7.\u00a0You are prudent.<\/h3>\n<p>Anxious youngsters\u00a0are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pubmed\/16393365\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">considerably less likely to be involved in a fatal\u00a0accident<\/a> than less anxious peers.<\/p>\n<h3>8. You are\u00a0people smart.<\/h3>\n<p>By virtue of constantly scanning the environment for threats, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fastcompany.com\/3025488\/how-to-be-a-success-at-everything\/relax-being-anxious-makes-you-a-good-leader\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">anxiety can make you more attuned to social and emotional signals<\/a> of others. You&#8217;re an ace at figuring out who you can trust, and you&#8217;re also really good at seeing the value in other people, even if they don&#8217;t see it for themselves.<\/p>\n<h3>9. You can see right through lies.<\/h3>\n<p>Speaking of reading people: If someone lies to you, you&#8217;re probably going to see right through it. And hey, if you like playing poker? Some types of anxiety make you really good at that, too.<\/p>\n<h3>10. You\u00a0practice and prepare.<\/h3>\n<p>It might feel like anxiety keeps you from thinking straight &#8212; but sometimes that&#8217;s actually a good thing. If you&#8217;ve trained hard for an exam, a performance or a sports match, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pubmed\/22289426\" data-cke-saved-href=\"https:\/\/www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/pubmed\/22289426\">a little anxiety can help you get out of your own way<\/a> and let that training kick in.<\/p>\n<h3>11. You are brave!<\/h3>\n<p>It&#8217;s pretty cool that anxiety comes with all these hidden benefits, but let&#8217;s face it, when the anxiety comes on strong, life can still be pretty rough. Dealing with those anxious feelings requires a lot of courage and confidence, and that\u00a0makes you one of the strongest people in the room.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Let&#8217;s not sugarcoat it: Life can be hard for anxious kids. Even simple, everyday tasks can seem big and scary when they come with sweaty palms, a pounding heart, and the feeling that something &#8212; anything, maybe even everything &#8212; is about to go horribly wrong. Anxious kids may\u00a0feel like it&#8217;s their job to stop &#8230; <a title=\"11 Superpowers of Anxious Children\" class=\"read-more\" href=\"https:\/\/gozen.com\/11-superpowers-of-anxious-children\/\" aria-label=\"Read more about 11 Superpowers of Anxious Children\">Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":24885,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"inline_featured_image":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[135,531],"tags":[362,180,181,361],"class_list":["post-24884","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-gozen-anxiety-relief","category-parents","tag-anxiety-benefits","tag-anxiety-in-children","tag-anxiety-symptoms","tag-stress-relief-children","no-featured-image-padding"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/gozen.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24884","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/gozen.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/gozen.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gozen.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gozen.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24884"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/gozen.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24884\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gozen.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/24885"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/gozen.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24884"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gozen.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24884"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/gozen.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24884"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}