Comments on: 11 Superpowers of a Strong-Willed Child https://gozen.com/11-superpowers-of-a-strong-willed-child/ Helping Kids Thrive Thu, 15 Nov 2018 18:03:17 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9 By: Respect2Glory https://gozen.com/11-superpowers-of-a-strong-willed-child/#comment-1178721 Fri, 08 Jul 2016 16:44:11 +0000 https://gozen.com/?p=29497#comment-1178721 I apply consequences a lot. If he doesn’t move, I promise to plan for more time for next time, and/or threaten to reduce his gaming time If he yells or ignores me. His biggest thing right now is gaming on the tablet and watching Roblox videos. He loses game time for being defiant and yelling, and if he persists, I start adding hours or days (yelling louder or three times) to reduce more of his gaming time. That usually quiets him down even before he complies to leaving.

While he is exhausting the conversation, I remind him that I’m the parent, the boss, the planner, etc… and that we can talk and plan for next time after he calms down. I speak clearly and quietly, to bring him to my level of breathing and heart rate.

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By: Tara https://gozen.com/11-superpowers-of-a-strong-willed-child/#comment-1178603 Thu, 07 Jul 2016 22:36:23 +0000 https://gozen.com/?p=29497#comment-1178603 How many of these qualities does one need to posses in order to be considered strong-willed?

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By: Ruth https://gozen.com/11-superpowers-of-a-strong-willed-child/#comment-1177395 Wed, 22 Jun 2016 14:06:06 +0000 https://gozen.com/?p=29497#comment-1177395 Awesome! This is me, my son and my grandson….so nice to see all these qualities phrased in a positive and constructive manner. Thank you 🙂

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